Practicing Gratitude
Joanna Macy
“A felt sense of wonder, thankfulness, and appreciation for life” is how the renowned psychologist Robert Emmons defines gratitude. Gratitude is about acknowledging the gifts that we really have! Recognizing the gifts in our life is profoundly steadying, increasing our psychological buoyancy, which helps us maintain our balance and poise when entering rough waters. Experiencing gratitude is a learnable skill that improves with practice. It isn’t dependent on things going well, or on receiving favors from others. It’s about getting better at spotting what’s already there. Each evening, before we go to bed, we might ask ourself, ‘What happened today that I’m glad about?’ This practice will bring a glow of contentment; a gratitude diary builds them into a pool of memories we can be nourished by.”
